My Big Decision

October 5th, 2009 Leave a comment Go to comments

For quite some time now, I have had a feeling that my life is in limbo. I retired in April of 2006, separated in August of that year and was divorced in February of 2008. I spent the first ten months of separation in Avalon and eventually came to miss my “home”, the western Main Line area, and being closer to my son, Rob. The result was the purchase of my current home in Chesterbrook, between Wayne and Valley Forge, in June of 2007.

For the first few months, all was well. I enrolled as a volunteer in the radiology department at Paoli Hospital, transporting patients to and fro for their diagnostic work. I have worked with four other men, all but one retired and all of whom are a pleasure to know. I have truly enjoyed doing this and, believe me, giving back does work- it feels good! I spent some time working on projects for my son, reading, too much TV, dating and a wonderful three-week trip to Egypt, Jordan and Israel.

But, something was missing. Anyone who knows me realizes that I really enjoy being on the water, preferably on my own boat… I am the captain and am able to come and go as I please (or the winds and weather dictate). Only one problem… too many boaters my age have made potentially serious mistakes on the water; eyesight, hearing and balance are all prerequisites for the successful boater and, unfortunately, all tend to diminish with age. Here are superb examples of what might happen in these circumstances….

So, what to do…

How else might I experience the freedom and excitement of boating? Last summer, having experienced the trip to the mid-east, I suddenly realized how little I have seen of my own country. Putting two and two together, I came up with the idea of seeing the USA by recreational vehicle. My son, well aware of my impetuous  nature, recommended a trial run… I rented a 31′ motor home for a week in September. Rob spent the first weekend with me and we had a wonderful time checking out the new museum at Gettysburg. In fact, we unknowingly arrived the day after its grand opening. It is well worth seeing. I had to take Rob home (he has to work, you know) and I spent the rest of the week exploring the Poconos, checking out Eaglesmere, Harvey’s Lake and the Mt. Pocono area.

Two amazing things happened, other than having a great time with my son. First, I have never experienced a more friendly, pleasant and helpful environment than that of the RV world. Everyone from RV park owners to park guards at Gettysburg were pleasant and determined to make my time enjoyable. Second, and even more important, I had the same feeling as when I was boating- I was free and in charge, able to move about in my own time and there was something new every day. So, I had found my surrogate to boating. In fact, it may end up being better… I have never heard of anyone seeing Denver by boat!

It was not until late January that I make the final decision… it was time to make the change. Having spent a lot of the winter checking out used RVs on the web and reviewing many of the RV web sites for information, I had a pretty good idea of what I wanted. Ah, but a complication: owning a home in Chesterbrook and a condo at the shore meant that I would have three places to live if I bought an RV… something had to go. The decision was relatively easy- Chesterbrook has been rented to offset the expense.

So, where do I find the right RV? The obvious thing to do was talk with the people at Stoltzfus RV Sales, where I had rented the RV in the fall. As it turned out, the right unit was there. I did some web searches for comparable units and found that the vehicle I liked was fairly priced. After some negotiation, including the inclusion of an installed towbar for a tag-a-long car, the deal was made. I settled on January 31st and will pick up the unit after some minor repairs and upgrades are finished.

Thus, the adventure begins….


  1. Marcy Hammerschlag
    July 19th, 2009 at 19:07 | #1

    The video was hysterical and made me want to read on. You, Skip, have a great sense of humor! Of course, now that I know you, I have other reasons for wanting to read and know more about you…thanks for sharing!

  2. frank bailor
    October 26th, 2009 at 10:10 | #2

    dude I loved the Boat video. Who was your sales rep at the dealership and would you recpomend him to others that would love this life style ??

  3. Graham Phillips
    December 21st, 2009 at 20:32 | #3

    Hello Skip, met you at the cocktail party in Grand Harbor and I remembered your website address – fun to read your adventures, many more to come I suspect. Drive safely, stay healthy and have a great time in 2010.

  4. Buzz, Marcia, Rex and LAine
    January 2nd, 2010 at 10:28 | #4

    Hi Skip,
    Hope all is well and Happy New Year. We are visiting friends in Lynchburg, VA, near the D Day Memorial in Bedford, VA is a must see.

    http://www.dday.org/

    We enjoyed showing our firends your Blog and they are motor homers as well. We are planning a 2 week excursion up to New England this summer.

    Hope all is well.
    The Reynolds

  5. Jeffry Cadorette
    January 7th, 2010 at 17:00 | #5

    Skip,
    Found your site and will spend some time reading of your exploits. Be safe and continue to enjoy. It’s cold as a well digger’s belt buckle up here!!!!!!!
    Jeff